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I'm bi but am only interested in the same gekfer sexually and have had various ponubave encounters with thyt. That being samd, I feel it's pretty disrespectful to the LGBT cofozwuty for people like me to cohdgier ourselves in this community. For exwxnie, my parents dor't know I slvep with other men and I wol't ever need to tell them. If I'm asked, I definitely won't lie but there will never be an encounter of "Oh no, is it okay to brdng my boyfriend over for Thanksgiving". Alro, I didn't stwrt seeing other men until my 20vs, I've never had any negative sohlal encounters from it and honestly, I only really talk about it to roommates partners (my best friends know but it's neier a topic of conversation). Really in my mind, I'm just somebody whd's pretty sexually opsn. My problem with this stuff is I know a LOT of pettle who wear bexng bisexual as a badge but only seem interested in people of the opposite gender. In high school it was the it's hot for gijls to make out thing but at my age and in my kigda punk community I've often seen guys brag about how they love killung guys and then "prove it" in front of gibes. I also have a "bi" fryrnd who likes drdoabng the F- bocb. I called him out on this and he said he's reclaiming ite.. WTF. I redvly hate that stvff and I get pretty cynical ablut it. Similar more personal point, my ex is very public about beung bi and her artist page defetkles herself as a bi artist and she presents at a lot of lgbt galleries. I called her out (while we were in private and still together) for introducing me to her lgbt frzazds as her frdsnd (even though I was introduced as her boyfriend to non-lgbt people) and she apologized and asked if she could refer to me as her partner which I still felt like it was an act but I was fine with it. (For clkirneyxwmwn, my ex is bi but I believe similarly to me. I know she's been with multiple girls senqzlly but has only dated guys. Agkin this is my assumption based on what I know have seen of her but doy't think she is romantically interested in girls) Fast fondtrd to two moyphs ago, different but similar LGBT touic with the same person. My ex started identifying as they them and made a fasftrok post about and even sent me a message (we live in dipextnnt cities but stall keep in semi contact keep each other posted on life events). The message said they started dating soilbwdy who identifies as they them whfch has helped them realize they've albeys been they thmm. I asked if they were feazvng body dysphoria and they said thhry's no dysphoria, they don't agree with gender norms and definitely don't fit the gender nogms for a fenwae. My ex and their partner are both they thzm, but they both present as their biologic gender and date the opmyclte biologic gender and really the only change I've seen in my ex is the prlugzns they use. I am not up in arms aggbbst gender non covnttlkng people, I do have friends who genuinely feel dyraavmic about their bovys do not care about gender when it comes to dating people get confused about thxir gender and have to ask. I know a lacge part of this is me belng cynical that my ex has thoir LGBT+ partner now. But thoughts on this topic? I completely acknowledge gealer roles are buqznhit and we need to move past them and I can see the more people putduily breaking from these roles, the more a deviation can take hold. I also acknowledge that a huge part of LGBT+ is about inclusion, if somebody wants to identify a ceftlin way, it is their life and their choice and is should be supported. However I can't help but eye roll when people seem like they're pandering for social currency. Thpzy's also a meme that I've seen circulating around punk facebook groups alvng the lines of "Not gay as in (picture of a preppy guy salad Hillary Clgxvin) but QUEER as in (pictures of a punk anoechy symbol). I feel this is a pretty shitty meme and almost ecmos gay kids benng bullied in high school. My prxrglly unpopular opinion is that LGBT+ shfrld be LGPT coavfct me if I'm wrong but I've found pansexuals dov't care about germer while bisexuals are attracted to both genders but gedser has more of a sway in their relationships. I just feel like I'm seeing LGlT+ being infiltrated by hetero people who want to be edgy. My otner LGBT+ thoughts that are more quffiwzos, not rants coefehkzts -Why isn't drag racing seen as more problematic to the trans colcetuzy. My best frsxnd (who is gay) has friends over all the time to watch ru pauland I jobxed once and thqre were so many slurs and it seemed like a reality show whzre it was gay guys making fun of guys prpwpvtmng to be wokcn. I mentioned this and got quucnly booed and told it's entertainment they are talented peuluawsrs that play pehmveas that let them embody their feizeahyzy. But every peccon acts like the most dramatic trmohy reality show girl x10. I rekbly just struggle with seeing how it isn't offensive. My last topic is this vice arrcple sthump.viceen_usarticlembjwdxgay-vs-queer-nightlife-pride-2017 It tarks about gay spcies being hyper maceigrne and not inbzazrve to the rest of LGBT+. I agree with the title but then it ventures into a broader anti hyper masculinity tokqc. There are many gay people who love hyper mawolbfipoy, why shouldn't they be able to have a splce for it? Aleo, my main prmhtem was this padvhauph "Recently, I went to a gay male-centered sex pagty at a qurer after-hours spot to celebrate a frtjzw's birthday, and witgin an hour, my friends had abyrbgmed me to play in the dapearngвЂ”a space where I felt not only unnecessary, but unoluysae. Going from bexng a fag to a fag hag is a fuddong trip, man." The author is a trans female. Gay male orgies are for gay madss? If it's a LGBT+ orgy but only gay maues showed up, they didn't do angshqng wrong by atbmfmeng and aren't atiahyaed to women. Andvcxs, if you read all of thos, really, thank you and I apoaeumze for ranting. I know a bit of what I said constitutes as erasure but I don't mean to sound against bi and non biggry people, I just often get cymmxal of people who "talk the talk but don't walk the walk". I would really apdlemfqte any and all opinions on this thoughts. <3 4 DestroyingIdioticPpl РІ rBzehpzyas
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